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GOOD NEWS
What
Does It Mean to Know God?
What is Christianity? Some say it is a philosophy, others say it is
an ethical stance, while still others claim it is actually an experience.
None of these things really gets to the heart of the matter, however.
Each is something a Christian has, but not one of them serves as a definition
of what a Christian is. Christianity has at its core a transaction between
a person and God. A person who becomes a Christian moves from knowing
about God distantly, to knowing about him directly and intimately. Christianity
is knowing God
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"Now
this is eternal life; that they may know you, the only true God,
and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent. " - John 17:3 |
Why
do I need to know God?
Our desire for personal knowledge of God is strong, but we usually fail
to recognize that desire for what it is. When we first fall in love,
when we first marry, when we finally break into our chosen field, when
we at last get that weekend house - these break-throughs arouse in us
anticipation of something, which as it turns out, never occurs. We eventually
discover that our desire for that precious something is a longing no
lover or career or achievement, even the best possible ones, can ever
satisfy. The satisfaction fades even as we close our fingers around
our goal. Nothing delivers the joy it seemed to promise. Many of us
avoid the yawning emptiness through busyness or denial, but at best
there is just a postponement. "Nothing tastes," said Marie Antoinette.
There are several ways to respond to this:
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By
blaming the things themselves
Finding fault in everyone and everything around you. You believe
that a better spouse, a better career, a better boss or salary would
finally yield the elusive joy. Many of the most successful people
of the world are like this - bored, discontented, running from new
thing to new thing, often changing counselors, mates, partners,
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By
blaming yourself
Trying harder to live up to standards. Many people believe they
have made poor choices or have failed to measure up to challenges
and to achieve the things that would give them joy and satisfaction.
Such people are wracked with self-doubts and tend to burn themselves
out. They think, "If only I could reach my goals, then this emptiness
would be gone." But it is not so. |
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By
blaming the universe itself
By giving up seeking fulfillment at all. This is the person
who says, "Yes, when young you are idealistic, but at my age I have
stopped howling after the moon." This makes you become cynical,
you decide to repress that part of yourself that once wanted fulfillment
and joy. But you become hard, and you can feel yourself losing your
humanity, compassion, and joy. |
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By
blaming and recognizing your separation from God
By establishing a personal relationship with him. |
The Christian
says,
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"Creatures
are not born with desires unless satisfaction for those desires
exists. A baby feels hunger; well there is such a thing as food.
A duckling wants to swim; well there is such a thing as water. Men
feel sexual desire; well there is such a thing as sex. If I find
in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy,
the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world.
If none of my earthly pleasures satisfy it, that does not mean that
the universe is a fraud. Probably earthly pleasures were never meant
to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing."
CS. Lewis |
How can I know God?
In order to form a personal relationship with God, you must know
three things:
1.
Who we are
God's creation. God created us and built us for a relationship
with him. We belong to him, and we owe him gratitude for every breath,
every moment, everything. Because humans were built to live for him
(to worship), we will always try to worship something - if not God,
we will choose some other object of ultimate devotion to give our lives
meaning.
Sinners.
We have all chosen (and re-affirm daily) to reject God and to make our
own joy and happiness our highest priority. We do not want to worship
God and surrender our self-mastery, yet we are built to worship, so
we cling to idols, centering our lives on things that promise to give
us meaning: success, relationships, influence, love, comfort, and so
on.
In
spiritual bondage. To live for anything else but God leads to breakdown
and decay. When a fish leaves the water, which he was built for, he
is not free, but dead. Worshiping other things besides God leads to
a loss of meaning. If we achieve these things, they cannot deliver satisfaction,
because they were never meant to replace God. Worshiping other things
besides God also leads to self-image problems. If we achieve these things,
they cannot deliver satisfaction, because they were never meant to be "gods." They were never meant to replace God. Worshiping other things
besides God also leads to self-image problems. We end up defining ourselves
in terms of our achievement in these things. We must have them or all
is lost; so they drive us to work too hard, or they fill us with terror
if they are jeopardized.
2.
Who God is
Love and justice. His active concern is for our joy and well-being.
Most people love those who love them, yet God loves and seeks the good
even of people who are his enemies. But because God is good and loving,
he cannot tolerate evil. The opposite of love is not anger, but indifference. "The more you love your son, the more you hate in him the liar, the
drunkard, the traitor." (E. Gifford). To imagine God's situation,
imagine a judge who also is a father, who sits at the trial of his guilty
son. A judge knows he cannot let his son go, for without justice no
society can survive. How much less can a loving God merely ignore or
suspend justice for us - who are loved, yet guilty of rebellion against
his loving authority?
Jesus
Christ. Jesus is God himself come to Earth. He first lived a perfect
life, loving God with all his heart, soul, and mind, fulfilling all
human obligation to God. He lived the life you owed - a perfect record.
Then, instead of receiving his deserved reward (eternal life), Jesus
gave his life as a sacrifice for our sins, taking the punishment and
death each of us owed. When we believe in him: 1) our sins are paid
for by his death, and 2) his perfect life record is transferred to our
account. So God accepts and regards us as if we have done all Christ
has done.
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What you must do
Repent. There first must be an admission that you have been living as your own
master, worshipping the wrong things, violating God's loving laws. "Repentance" means you ask forgiveness and turn from that stance with a willingness
to live for and center on him.
Believe. Faith is transferring your trust from your own efforts to the efforts
of Christ. You were relying on other things to make you acceptable,
but now you consciously begin relying on what Jesus did for your acceptance
with God. All you need is nothing. If you think, "God owes me something
for all my efforts," you are still on the outside.
Pray
after this fashion: "I see I am more flawed and sinful than I ever
dared believe, but that I am even more loved and accepted than I ever
dared hope. I turn from my old life of living for myself. I have nothing
in my record to merit your approval, but I now rest in what Jesus did
and ask to be accepted into God's family for his sake."
When you
make this transaction, two things happen at once: 1) your accounts are
cleared, your sins are wiped out permanently, you are adopted legally
into God's family and 2) the Holy Spirit enters your heart and begins
to change you into the character of Jesus.
Follow
through. Tell a Christian friend about your commitment. Get yourself
training in the basic Christian disciples of prayer, worship, Bible
study, and fellowship with other Christians. You can contact our church
office at (770) 973-4114, and we will be eager to connect you with someone
who can help you begin to grow as a Christian.
Consider reading: Go
For It, by John Guest, or The Fight, by John White. Both
are good books for developing a new Christian life.
Why
should I seek to know God?
On one hand, you may feel that you "need" him. Even though you may recognize
that you have needs only God can meet, you must not try to use him to
achieve your own ends. It is not possible to bargain with God. ("I'll
do this if you will do that.") That is not Christianity at all, but
a form of magic or paganism in which you "appease" the cranky deity
in exchange for a favor. Are you getting into Christianity to serve
God, or to get God to serve you? Those are two opposite motives and
they result in two different religions. You must come to God because
1) you owe it to him to give him your life (because he is your creator)
and 2) you are deeply grateful to him for sacrificing his son (because
he is your redeemer).
On the
other hand, you may feel no need or interest to know God at all. This
does not mean you should stay uncommitted. If you were created by God
then you owe him your life, whether you feel like it or not. You are
obligated to seek him and ask him to soften your heart, open yours eyes,
and enlighten you. If you say, "I have no faith," that is no excuse
either. You need only doubt your doubts. No one can doubt everything
at once - you must believe in something to doubt something else. For
example, do you believe you are competent to run your own life? Where
is the evidence of that? Why doubt everything but your doubts about
God and your faith in yourself? Is that fair? You owe it to God to seek
him. Do so.
What
if I am not ready to proceed?
Make a list of the issues that you perceive to be barriers to your crossing
the line into faith. Here is a possible set of headings:
Content
issues. Do you understand the basics of the Christian message -
sin, Jesus as God, sacrifice, faith?
Coherence
issues. Are there intellectual problems you have with Christianity?
Objections to the Christian faith that you cannot resolve in your own
mind?
Cost
issues. Do you perceive that a move into full Christian faith will
cost you dearly? What fears do you have about commitment?
Now
talk to a Christian friend until these issues are resolved. [Or contact
our church office at 770/973-4114 and we will be happy to connect you
with someone you could talk to about these matters.]
Consider reading: Hope Has Its Reasons, by Rebecca Pippert (Harper & Row); Mere
Christianity, by C.S. Lewis (MacMillan); Basic Christianity,
by John Stott (VP).
by Dr. Timothy Keller, © 1991
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